Set A Target
Once when I interviewed for a job, I was
asked the question, “What’s one word that would describe you?” I have
interviewed for many jobs over the years and this is one question that
frequently comes up so I was prepared. I responded confidently, “resourceful.”
The man interviewing me sat back with an audible, “Hum!”
It’s my belief that humans are all resourceful because what
we truly desire, we achieve. If we don’t define what that is and establish a
date to achieve it, we are rewarded with disorganization and
discontentment. Last year, I
surveyed my life and that’s exactly what I had achieved.
I would say things like, “I wish I could lose weight.” If I
was as resourceful as I proposed in my interview, why hadn’t I ever achieved
sustained weight loss? Last year, I realized because a wish or goal is empty if
not tied to a concrete target and completion date. As long as I didn’t set
targets, then I didn’t fail because I could start tomorrow or next week or next
month or next year. That’s what I
did year after year.
My 50th birthday loomed and it was imperative to
set a reasonable target and date to see lasting results. After much research,
the consensus seemed to be losing one pound per week was the healthiest. It
keeps your body from going into “starvation mode” that results when you
drastically reduce calories and suddenly start high-intensity exercise.
I kept reminding myself that I didn’t gain my extra 100 lbs.
in a year or even in a decade. One pound per week is 52 pounds in a year. When we set unrealistic goals, we are
resourceful in that we will sabotage our health, mind and spirit to achieve
them and that’s exactly what I had done in the past only to gain what I lost
and more.
So, I settled on my target and completion day as:
Lose 50 lbs. by April 7, 2015, my 51st birthday
What will your target and your completion date be? Remember,
you didn’t get to where you are overnight. Be realistic and you’ll see your resourcefulness emerge. Write it down and post it where you can
see it each morning and every evening.
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Kerri Smith is a marketing professional by trade but dedicates her life
to learning and challenging the status quo. Smith is a wife, mother,
grandmother, businesswoman, professional speaker, teacher, student, author,
survivor and lover of life. Learn more at www.cuexceed.com.

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